What does a sex doll feel like? How do sex dolls work? How to use a sex doll? What does sex with a sex doll feel like?
Are you also interested in these questions? Fine, in this article, you can find out everything you will ever need to know about how to have sex with a sex doll.
- Buying a sex doll for yourself
If you haven’t made a purchase, check out our 2019 sex doll buyer’s guide.
- Items to purchase before using a sex doll
Don’t forget that your sex doll is also an investment, and you need to care for your new toy in the best ways possible to get the most out of your new sex toy. Before using your sex doll, ensure you have the following items.
To prevent injury on your skin and enjoy vagina, anal or oral penetration with your penis the best way you can, ensure the orifice is properly lubricated.
Lubricants are of two types; silicone lubricants and water-based lubricants. Water-based lubricant is highly recommended for use because it is more hygienic, easy to clean, and it will not go everywhere unlike silicone lubricants. Another thing is that some individuals are allergic to silicone, and I am sure you don’t want to discover if you have silicone allergy the hard way when using your sex doll.
You can choose to use a silicone lubricant with a silicone sex doll, but you will get a better sex experience if you use a water-based lubricant. Cleaning your sex doll is a lot easier, especially when it involves afterward routines you and your sex doll might get engaged in.
- Anti-bacterial soap
Keeping your sex doll clean is essential; thus, you need soap. Make sure there is no bacteria or microbe on the soap you are using, so it will not get to your doll. Note that TPE sex dolls are usually more porous than other sex dolls, so you have to be extra careful. Ensure you give your doll a light bath with this since it will reach everywhere easily.
So it’s essential you get what you can apply gently on your doll’s skin. Try not to rub this, it will only make your doll’s skin rough, and you won’t feel the gentle, soft skin that came with the doll the first time you got it. It’s advisable you take this important since you will be using it quite often.
- Vaginal irrigator
A vaginal irrigator looks more like an enema to be used in the vaginal region. You fill this item with water and soap, then use it in cleaning the orifices. Having a vaginal irrigator is essential, especially if you plan on using it for a very long time.
Using a vaginal irrigator makes cleaning much easier, especially if it’s your first time using one. You will also find this tool interesting if your doll does not have the removable small inserts. You can also use this item even if your doll has the removable inserts. Regardless, this tool allows you to clean the inside of your sex doll deeply.
- Renewal powder
Renewal powder is another item you may want to consider before using your sex doll. You apply this item on your sex doll to keep the skin appearance petty and luxurious. Usually, when you use a doll, the oils and grime from your body are deposited on the skin, and the doll’s skin starts to lose its luster over time. Thus, their appearance depreciates over time, and they don’t look as beautiful as they were when you purchased them. Applying this power on your sex doll ensures the skin remains soft and smooth. Renewal powder is an item to add to your list of items if you want your doll’s skin to look young and beautiful.
You can also apply this power to the inside of your doll. Your doll may feel a little used and not as nice as silky as it used to after a rough round of sex, using this power can help with this. It can dry the dust area, restoring its beautiful and new look.
Besides giving your sex doll a good look, using renewal powder can also reduce the wear and tear action of your doll. It keeps your doll’s skin tighten, and it also keeps the penetration area intact after a rough sexual encounter with them.
- Stain removers
Well, it’s obvious that your doll may get stained from time to time as you make use of it; therefore, you need to include a stain remover in your list of items. Having a sheet, clothing or probably carpet stain remover is not a bad idea. This is nice if you desire something a little different and kinky with your doll, alongside your general cleanup. Using stain removers can help remove stains from your doll’s cloth; it also helps in cleaning lubricants as ease. In addition, most of these stain removers have ant-bacterial features, making it more hygienic.
Hygiene and sex toys are super important, and it is vital you consider this. Your doll is also a sex toy, although some people may not really agree with that. Note, the more you take good care of your doll, the longer the lifespan, and the more you enjoy using it.
- Sex Doll Unboxing and Assembling
The day you have been waiting for has come. You are really excited about seeing your package on your porch. You hardly notice the person in charge of delivery, and your hand is shivering as you sign to receive your product. The only thing on your mind is the box you just received and what’s in it. Hello there! Slow down. Before you get down with your new spouse, there is one important step you to note down. You have to be careful during the unboxing process and assemble your new lover correctly.
Step 1: Move your package to a space in your home carefully, ensure the room has a lot of floor space.
Most people are always surprised about the weight of their package when they receive it for the first time; it’s pretty heavy. Most full-size sex dolls weigh between 50-70 pounds including all the packaging weight. Expect your fully packaged sex doll to weigh about 80 pounds upon arrival. In case you have a form of disability, or you are much older, or you live in the 5th floor or so with no lift provision, you have to be well prepared for how you will transport your package to your home. You could receive assistance from a close friend, your you can pay the delivery man to assist you.
It’s advisable you unpack your sex doll in a room with lots of floor space because you need to lay your new lover flat on the floor beside the box.
Step 2: Use a box cutter or knife or any sharp object in opening the box along the seams
To open the package, cut the tape along the top edges of the box using a knife, box cutter or any object of choice after placing the package on the ground in your room. Be careful when using the knife to avoid cutting too deep so you don’t damage your product. The box will open up after you are done cutting the tape along the seams.
Step 3: Wash your hands
Since your new sex toy is set to be transferred from the box, I’m pretty sure you don’t want to mark or smudge her pristine skin with dirt on your hands. Thus, it’s advisable you wash your hands before you touch your new sex toy.
Step 4: Unpack the head of your product
You will find the head of your sex doll resting on the upper thigh of your product; it is placed in a sized sphere of packing foam. Remove the foam used in wrapping the head with care and take the head of its bag. Place the head of your sex doll on top of the bag on the ground close to the box. You will get back to it when you take the body out.
TIP: You can use the bag to store the head when you are not using it.
Step 5: Take out any other accessories in the box
Sometime, you may find some added accessories in the package such as clothing, cleaning tools, and a closet storage system. Take these items out of the box and place them elsewhere. After removing any added accessories, only the doll’s body and the blanket she’s placed on will remain in the box.
Step 6: Use a pair of scissors in removing the foam from the doll’s body
Step 7: Lift your sex doll out of the box using the blanket
Lift your new sex doll out of the box by wrapping your arms around the doll and blanket, place the doll on the ground gently.
Step 8: Attach the doll’s head to the body and wear your doll the wig
If you are here to read about the main activity, then that’s it. However, there may be some exceptions, many of our clients buy these sex dolls for realistic, sexual companionship. These dolls are created for this purpose, and they can offer you the pleasure and excitement you desire. The secret is to adopt some best practices to have the best experience, and you will enjoy the comfort of your sex doll for a very long time.
- Dressing up your sex doll
You can buy some wigs for your doll, doing this makes her appear different and beautiful. There are many styles you can select from. The hairstyle and color can brighten up and represent your ideal partner accurately.
Buying a wig for your love doll with height 140-160cm is easy. Your sex doll can wear the real wig. Most wigs for Cosplay are beautiful and cheap. And you can purchase them online without stress. Smaller dolls with a short height between 100-130cm have a small head circumference. Getting a child’s wig is more suitable, and they are difficult to purchase. You may need a special sex doll wig for other mini-sex dolls like 65cm, 80cm, and so on. The Wig used by BJD three-pointer is a typical example.
You can purchase clothing like lingerie, kinky costume or fetish wear for your doll to transform her looks. Get something that will fit on her perfectly, probably go for something smaller to make her appearance unique.
You can buy real women clothes if your sex doll falls within the height of 150cm or above. However, know that the general sex doll shape is much smaller than a real woman. Pay close attention when shopping for clothes for your doll. You don’t expect the size of different brands to be the same. For instance, your doll is size S when wearing A brand. When putting on B brand, it may change from XS due to different versions. You can buy children’s clothes for your doll if its height falls between 100-140cm. Children’s cloth size is usually divided into children (110-110cm), middle children (110-130cm), big children (130-150cm_, and so on. All the closes are good-looking and fashionable. We trust you will find a nice cloth that will suit your doll perfectly. Mini-wavy dolls are also unique products. Just like wigs, you can turn to the clothing of BJD three-pointer.
- You can purchase a few inexpensive materials of clothes to know the actual size before going for the ones you really like. By doing this, you won’t spend a lot of money on something that won’t fit perfectly.
- Safety pins can be very useful. You can use them in pinning skirts and back shirts that are too big a bit. This will create a gorgeous silhouette.
- The doll’s feet differ from the face, body and sex organ that are well taken care of during its production. Thus, it’s possible you will not like the feet. In that case, you can purchase a sexy pair of sock and wear it on her to cover the feet. Black, nylon stockings are sexier, combined with high-heeled shoes.
You can make your doll more attractive by wearing it a nice bracelet. But you need to be careful. Do not use jewelry or accessories that could stain or injure your doll, or jewelry that is too heavy. Take off any accessories when you’re done. It’s not advisable to store your doll with any jewelry or accessories on.
- Perfumes and colognes
It’s completely normal if you want your doll to smell good when you penetrate her. You can become more aroused sexually from the smell of a nice perfume or cologne. We don’t plan on stopping anyone who wants to enjoy their doll to the fullest. However, we advise you to avoid items that will cause unintentional damage. If you’re going to use perfumes, apply them on the dolls clothes and not on the skin of the doll. These items consist of alcohol, which is not good for TPE or silicone. It’s possible for the scent to seep into the material of the doll, causing damage. And I’m pretty sure you won’t be happy if that should happen.
- Having sex with a doll
People usually ask questions like how to get laid with a sex doll or how does it feel to have sex with a doll. And sometimes they are usually shy to ask these questions. You don’t have to be afraid, we have gone through nice sex doll forums and communities to offer you great ideas concerning different types of sexual sensation.
Having sex with a doll is a beautiful experience (which you will discover below), there is no much difference with the real deal, and some individual usually prefer sex dolls – no stress attached, you have all the comfort, no need turning the lights off. But if you desire something fascinating, then you will have to pay about 1000-2000 pounds for a realistic experience. If you are only after the body, you can pay less, but you will get little pleasure from cheap models and inflatable dolls.
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(1) Selecting the right lubricant for your sex doll
For first-timers, It’s advisable you use a lubricant when having sex with your doll; this is to prevent you from harming your skin and causing damages in places you will not want to. For instance, do you want to have injury after having anal sex with your doll on your penis?
Try applying lubricant on any spot you plan on penetrating. Keep it at minimal, don’t overuse it. You will only get your doll too sticky and messy.
- If you feel you need to add more lubricant, it’s better you add only a little amount of warm water. This will reactivate the lubricant you applied, and it may be the only thing you have to do to continue with your experience.
- Water-based lubricant is highly recommended. Do not use petroleum-based, oil-based or silicone lubricants; this type of lubricants will only cause harm to your doll. (To select the perfect oil for your doll, we advise you purchase a small water-based lubricant bottle first and experiment. Continue testing different samples until you find the best brand).
- Some people do prefer a dryer approach. They make use of powder for this reason. Friction is reduced, but the sexual experience is totally
(2) Kissing and touching your sex doll
The feeling from kissing a sex doll is so real, the face is soft, realistic and the doll’s mouth can open, allowing you to put your tongue in her mouth and also feel hers. Of course, the sex doll will have a tongue and teeth, as well as a deep throat.
Silicone sex dolls and modern TPE are designed to give you a realistic experience. They have soft-realistic skin, soft boobs that’s round and squeezable, soft nipples and a great ass.
(3) Vaginal sex with your sex doll
One of the common ways people enjoy sex with their dolls is through vaginal sex. Most attention is directed to the vaginal of a realistic sex doll. The vagina of these dolls is created with soft material that the skin of a woman in an anatomically precise way to give you the appearance and feel of a real vagina. When blindfolded, you may not be able to tell the difference between the vagina of a sex doll and a woman.
The sex with a doll is the same as expected. You place the sex doll how you want, and then insert your penis the way you usually do. The friction and pressure will give you a fantastic experience during sex.
People usually ask if it’s okay for men to ejaculate in their dolls. Absolutely, you can. This practice is very common, and our sex dolls were built for it. We will talk about maintaining your sex doll much later when we are through with this part.
On fansdolls.com, you can choose sex dolls with fixed or removable vagina. Looking at the sex doll from outside, both the fixed and removable vagina appear the same. However, choosing the type of vagina you want for your sex doll depends on your preferences for ease hygiene or realistic sex.
Sex dolls with a fixed vagina have a barrel molded during the manufacturing period. A fixed vagina offers a more realistic feeling during sex and a more realistic type of body.
Replaceable or removable vaginas are recommended because you can clean them easily, and it is essential that you keep your doll’s vagina clean to prevent sexually transmitted diseases/infections and also for long-term usage.
(4) Having anal sex with your doll
A lot of people dream about having anal sex. For most people, it is normal, pleasurable and healthy. But the sad truth about anal sex is finding a partner who is willing or even finding someone who enjoys being the receiver. You have nothing to worry if you desire an anal experience, both our female and make dolls are designed to serve this purpose. The anus is just like the vaginal, the anus it anatomically accurate and stimulates the real feeling one may experience during anal sex. It is much tighter, and the sensation is entirely different from the front.
(5) Oral sex with your sex doll
Regardless of what you are into and the type of sex doll you have, you can derive pleasure from oral sex. Some sex dolls are created with deep throat, and with a little heat and lubricant, they can feel like the mouth of a human. A love doll, however, cannot stimulate the suction you get from a real person, and you don’t need to worry about your sex doll’s gag reflex, whether the doll’s neck becomes stiff or her reaction when you are done.
Note: You need to be careful during oral sex because the oral cavity can tear easily.
- Other interesting things you can do with your sex doll
How to use a sex doll? You know, there are still other exciting things you can do with your doll beside sex, especially if you are moody and you need some companionship. This section will teach you how to use your sex doll in other ways apart from sex that might be interesting to you.
Firstly, your sex doll can be used as your companion. The urge for companionship and physical intimacy can rise to a point where controlling it becomes difficult, especially if you are single for a long time. You can reduce the stress with your sex dolls. You can cuddle, hold and sleep with a realistic sex doll, and feel the company of a faithful companion. You can take your sex doll on a date if you want to. You can take them anywhere, to the park, to eat, any location you please. If you want to get wet with them, you can since they are waterproof. This is one of the interesting ways you can use your sex doll.
Secondly, you can use your doll for art. Some photographers out there have done extensive work with sex dolls. Also, some fashion designers have used sex dolls to test their outfits to know how their clothing will look when people wear them. Generally, these dolls serve as a bridge between fantasy and reality without compromising social ethics.
It might be somehow strange building a strong bond with sex dolls, but it is usually encouraged if you feel like bonding and getting close with your doll. You can use your sex doll to alleviate stress, for companionship, as art, and so on. Everything eventually boils down to what you need your sex doll for. It’s your property; you have the right to do whatever you please with just like any sex toy, but ensure you clean your doll properly after use.
- Clean your sex doll after using
Please link to the article: How to Clean Sex Dolls?
- Store your sex doll after use
How do you store your sex doll after use? Continue reading to know how.
To be honest, there is no best or perfect method to store your sex doll. You store your doll based on what’s convenient for you. Some people may want to store their doll in their closet vertically, while some people with plenty of space under their bed would want to put the doll back in the box and keep under their bed. I will inform you about the two most common ways of storing sex dolls.
Lying your sex doll has just one point. You cannot lie your doll on the “hard plane.” Always remember to put a cushion under your doll regardless of how you lie it, whether on the bed, on the floor or in the storage box. Doing this will prevent the curve on the back or buttocks to become flattened or deformed which could happen as a result of long-term compression by weight. Ensure you place your doll on a cushion, especially for TPE sex dolls; it’s impossible to rebound if the body gets deformed.
This is the best method to store sex dolls. When you hang your sex doll, no side will be altered or squeezed by the doll’s weight. You can store your doll in this position if you have a closet or shelf in your home. There are different hanging methods for different models of sex dolls. You can contact us for advice when you have the hanging requirements.
Regardless of how you want to store your sex doll, either handing or lying, make sure it’s dust-proof. At all times, cover your sex dolls with an easier to clean.